Thursday, November 3, 2011

Introduction

Singapore is a super small city with limited resources, spaces, places and human being. Dating starts to get stagnant, going to the places you always go and do is kind of boring. On top of that, you need to juggle work/studies, family and friends... How to maintain a girl/boy friend?

Well it is simple... Think out of the box and always know your partner well, know what they like and their pet peeves are.

Step 1:

How to know your partner well?

Keep probing!
I do NOT mean physically.... -_-
Keep chatting. Most of us know that successful relationships need ample communications and effective ones. Active sharing and listening is the key. It is basically why most of us fell in love. Be it verbally or visually. Basically, communication breaks the ice and this is the first step to maintain the lovely warm and fuzzy feeling of love.

How to know their pet peeves?
Is this testing your limits?
Fear not! By observing their body language you will understand them and if you don't... too bad.
Subtle frowning, lips pouting, eyes rolling, mood changing and abrupt actions will be some of the signs of disgust, anger, dissatisfaction and frustration. The list goes on and you must put your observation skills to test. It is like how you handle a sunny side up. Handle it well and the yolk will remain intact! All the best!

How to think out of a box?
Basically knows what's in the box and do everything else that's not in it! Hahaha!
This may sound like a joke but it is not! Doing the same things over and over again works for some but others might like to try something new. It can be mild, moderate or totally wild!

Well that's all for now! Stay tuned for dating ideas and more~!

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